My Heartfelt Sympathy
“Find your eternity in each moment…”- Henry David Thoreau Sadly, this week I find myself in need of sending not only one, but two sympathy cards. I am reminded that our lives are fragile, that we are not meant to be here ‘forever’, and that we should live each day in appreciation of what it has to offer. We should be ever present, because we will always find, no matter what our age, that yearning for our past or looking always to our future, will only result in our missing the actual moment of our living. My Brother in Law’s Father passed away at 98 years old. We tell ourselves that he lived a good, long life…surely dying in your own bed at that age is not such a bad thing….lucky to have been still in his own home and living on his own terms. But the sad truth is that no matter what age he was, for those he leaves behind, it is no less sad or difficult to have to say goodbye, and to accept that he is with them no more. …